HEY this girl is tormenting me

[whitekickboy]

just thought i would bring my problem yet again onto pc a while back now
me 15 had a little girl trouble some rumours went around this idiot said i said something about her breasts and basically.. she got about 10 people after school followed me home with bricks and stick stones hit me a couple of times and well ive never got over it and no matter how hard i try i cant forget it and sometimes i want to absolutely hurt them guys and the girl too was standing there while i got smashed up and ive never got over this has gave me countless nightmares and i tried to forgive her i just couldnt

I need help on what to do

because i really want to get them back for what they have done but i know its wrong and will not solve any problems apart from than i have my revenge

should i just keep talking about that day to the girl because she knows he lied and told her a lie so should i torment her or would i become what she is?

 

[Leggie]

Knock the **** out them all.

On the other hand you could consult an adult, I know its not exactly 'cool', But oh well, You have to get adults invovled as unfortunately most of them are more sophisticaed than us.

 

[ste_mc_efc]

Do a barrel roll?

Has the girl apologised or is she denying it? If she has apologised you should try and move on, if not well talking to an adult you trust and respect sounds like a good idea.

 

[whitekickboy]

ive consulted an adult i rang the police when it happend but because all her mates stuck up for her i couldnt take it any further otherwise i would get counter allegations but no!! she never apologised once if she would have apologise i would of been happy i tried being friends with her but i just cant forget it keep having nightmares. then afterwards she never wanted to talk about it which i think she knew tht the guy lied about what he said i said about her breasts but i need help cos i just cant forget it and she isnt the type of girl who would sit down and discuss it!

TBH i wanna knock the seven shades out of them it would end my troubles but then id get done by bigger people there is pros and cons to both my friend

 

[Punk_Sk8r]

If you care about what people think then knock them out. If your not too bothered then just move on and if they try anything shifty......knock them out.

 

[.Mob]

Don't fight back with muscle, you'd be just as bad as them, and afterwards they'll only look for revenge the same way, resulting in a bad cycle which will only end in someone being seriously hurt.

Knocking them out will do no good, ruin every aspect of their lives by taking away all the things precious to them. Beat them mentally.

 

[Highlander999]

I thought we sorted all this out?

Basically it is not un-common to feel extreme hate to these bully's. For me in this situation I use my spirtuality (Christianity) to be the bigger man and try and forgive them as they know no better and by you hating them it is dominating your life and affectng your actions. Now you don't have to be Christian to believe this, so I'll use another cliché. There is always a bigger fish. You concentrate on making the most of your life and enjoying it and I can promise you that everything will begin to feel loads better. Just think of this when you get hateful and know that someday, it'll come back and bite them on the bum

 

[.::Stevo::.]

Deal with them Rambo style!!!

 

[Cricketdude]

Yes Stevo, very appropriate way.

 

[jordox]

You live in a fine country, there is no reason to act aggressively and you should use the benifits that your society gives you. If you have a group of 10 boys throwing rocks at you on a regular basis, call the police or go through the school because you can be hurt.

Don't listen to these people trying to be cool saying bash them up and that. It wont do you any good, and I've seen to many people die trying to do exactly that.

 

[.::Stevo::.]

What is it exactly that they thought you said about her breasts? Shes 15, they can't be that great....

 

[Simbazz]

You live in a fine country, there is no reason to act aggressively and you should use the benifits that your society gives you. If you have a group of 10 boys throwing rocks at you on a regular basis, call the police or go through the school because you can be hurt.

Don't listen to these people trying to be cool saying bash them up and that. It wont do you any good, and I've seen to many people die trying to do exactly that.

Much agreed!

At 15, being the bigger person probably means going getting three of each of those guys teeth, a broken knuckle and if lucky enough, a crowd the size that Madison Square Gardens holds.

This, at 15, is probably something i'd have done. I was a rugby player, and addicted to the sport so I wasn't in the greatest of places!

Do one of two things. Tell your parents, who then, can take the case further with school/there parent etc. It doesnt sound like the coolest, but think how embarressing it'll be for those yobs when they're getting shouted at off mommy and daddy!

OR! Tell school, they can mediate some sort of agreement between you and the gang, or involve parents.

Either way, adults are unfortunately intellectually more superior than a 15 year old its a bitch, i know, but its the truth!

 

[whitekickboy]

hehe yeah ive told them when it happend but tom its not the same person its a different one :P any one have any ideas How i can get them mentally?

 

[Simbazz]

hehe yeah ive told them when it happend but tom its not the same person its a different one :P any one have any ideas How i can get them mentally?

Kid, and i use it in the proper sense, let it slide. There are 10 of them, and one of you. I'm no mathematics wiz, but you gunna get hurt.

 

[superhussey]

let it go.. youll feel better long term

and hang on, you want to sort it out and become friends with this girl again? i dont think shes worth it...